After such a grand night on Friday with 'My Family' (as in TOF and my boys) and my sons friends my weekend was temporarily derailed by older members of my original family. This saddens me immensely and disappoints me that a few members seem to derive great pleasure in constantly upsetting the balance that should be a normal thing in a family. I am so over the pettiness of you said, she said crap that comes from these people and the lies. I almost came close to giving up my blog as they read it even tho they have nothing to do with me and then pass on snippets to each other which I suspect grow in the telling. My Blog is my buzz, nothing less nothing more. I share photos I take which you all know I am passionate about and most stories are about my own self. If I take the piss it is about me, no one else. If you don't like me then why would you even be remotely interested in reading my blog. But I shall continue to blog and be a free thinking person with low tolerance to shit stirrers. I am an adult not a child and maybe, just maybe these people need to grow up and get their own life. They will not win and drag me down to their own immature level.
My mother has always said we are a dysfunctional family? Really?? I have thoughts on that but that stay in my head along with an awful lot of other bullshit that has resulted from these people. I have finally decided to put these people to one side. Is this wrong? After all they are family. I have tried for years to understand how these peoples minds operate and am at a loss and I find it unhealthy to be a part of what ever it is they are trying to achieve. So I am sticking to the pro active people in my life not the reactive ones. Am I alone here or do some of you have similar situations? Maybe this is not the place to air such a personal thing but writing has always been a release for me.